Saya da 24 tahun.. bidang kerjaya masih samar-samar dimata - belajar pon tgh on off - percintaan tergantung ~
Ya Rabbi awal nya dugaan hidup ni,, rasa tak terurus pon ada juga.. atau aku tak bersyukur? selalu ingin penuhi keinginan yg tidak tercapai.. arghhh jgn jadi budak2 wa,, matang grow up move wake up stand up~
Berdepan dengan dugaan membuatkn aku matang? tp siapa di sebelah aku disaat jatuh? aura yg +ve atau -ve? atau keduanya,,, itu yg dinamakan bijak memilih dan belajar utk berfikir~
kesalahan demi kesalahan aku buat. smuanya disebabkan nafsu remaja aku??/ dan skrg aku mulai menjenguk alam dewasa.. apakah aku ready? bekalan yg aku bawak apa?? tenaga dan kekuatan .. ilmu?
Ya Allah aku belum ready sebenarnya,,,
ini yg dikata kan " actions speak louder than talk"
aku selalu suara kan keinginan aku- tp aku bertindak tak? ermm ada.. tp result yg aku dpt masih so so ... jadi? aku di kira tidak mensyukuri ke???? tidak berusaha ke?
Dari berfikir panjang dan putar belit~ baik aku set kan dlm mind aku,, apa tujuan aku hidup .. sudah titik,, no more discussion da,, skrg aku rasa .. cukup mjadi remaja cuba utk belajar menjadi dewasa ..
mula berfikir utk kerjaya yg memberi kepuasan utk diri aku? yg gaji besar ke?/ ouh bukan... maksud aku kepuasan iaitu kenikmatan bile melakukan kerja tu.. so bkn smuanya berlatar kan wang kan :)
ak nk buat sesuatu yg dtg dr keinginan aku? hahaha
belajar selagi mampu dan berpeluang , mcm mak aku ckp " kereta harga rm 80,000 skrg jika di nilai 10 tahun akan dtg ... hanya lah besi buruk yg menunggu rosak -- tapi kau ilmu atau sijil yg bernilai rm 80,000 skrg,, nilai nya 10 tahun akan dtg makin bersinar-sinar
jadi yg mana pilihan aku?
Percintaan.. cukup -- aku cuma mau perhubungan yg matang dan yg boleh membawa ke perkahwinan yg sakinah mawaddah warahmah ~ amin~ dan sentiasa aku berada disisi org yg aku sygi- famili aku- amin
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Patience :
I think over the many years of dating and break-ups, if there’s anything I learnt about loving someone and being in a relationship, it’s patience.
It’s not about how sweet you can be, how much gifts you give, or even how much you’re willing to do for your loved one. It’s about how patient and understanding you can be when things aren’t going right, when someone does something that makes you angry, sad, or hurt.
If I think over every single argument I’ve had in the past, and the break ups, most of the time, if only one side could be more patient and understanding, everything could’ve been prevented.
It’s actually really easy to treat someone nicely, it’s easy to do a lot of sweet things for someone, it’s easy to shower someone with love and gifts. But it’s so hard, so hard, to be understanding and patient when things aren’t going the way you want. It took me so many years to try to learn this, and even now I can’t say it’s easy, but I know I’m trying.
In this relationship, I lose in almost every argument I have with my girlfriend.
Not because I have no sense of principle or opinion. It’s because I think that for almost every argument, it’s not really important who wins, deep inside, most of us all know what’s right and wrong. It’s just at the heat of the moment, we become stubborn, or we let our emotions take over our logic and we argue. In the past, every time I win an argument, after it’s all over, I know deep inside who was right and who was wrong. If you care and love someone, try to just let little meaningless things go, sometimes even let the big things slide... just a piece of my mind
---> I think even if you are patient, if you don't communicate, the other person won't understand and will take advantage.. =/
I think over the many years of dating and break-ups, if there’s anything I learnt about loving someone and being in a relationship, it’s patience.
It’s not about how sweet you can be, how much gifts you give, or even how much you’re willing to do for your loved one. It’s about how patient and understanding you can be when things aren’t going right, when someone does something that makes you angry, sad, or hurt.
If I think over every single argument I’ve had in the past, and the break ups, most of the time, if only one side could be more patient and understanding, everything could’ve been prevented.
It’s actually really easy to treat someone nicely, it’s easy to do a lot of sweet things for someone, it’s easy to shower someone with love and gifts. But it’s so hard, so hard, to be understanding and patient when things aren’t going the way you want. It took me so many years to try to learn this, and even now I can’t say it’s easy, but I know I’m trying.
In this relationship, I lose in almost every argument I have with my girlfriend.
Not because I have no sense of principle or opinion. It’s because I think that for almost every argument, it’s not really important who wins, deep inside, most of us all know what’s right and wrong. It’s just at the heat of the moment, we become stubborn, or we let our emotions take over our logic and we argue. In the past, every time I win an argument, after it’s all over, I know deep inside who was right and who was wrong. If you care and love someone, try to just let little meaningless things go, sometimes even let the big things slide... just a piece of my mind ---> I think even if you are patient, if you don't communicate, the other person won't understand and will take advantage.. =/
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